Considering how important the well-being of a family is, we want to share with you a few short family quotes and rules for your successful family life. Modern parents are constantly busy. They are sure that their task is to provide the children with food and clothing, give money for movies and send them to the camp in the summer. And heart-to-heart conversations, family dinners and all kinds of expressions of feelings are nonsense. What attitudes do children receive when they are deprived of their parents’ attention?
Family and friends are the main things in your life
If adults do not pay attention to the feelings and needs of children, they unconsciously broadcast silent, invisible attitudes that largely determine a person’s self-esteem and self-image in adulthood.
Together we make a family
Children’s attitudes do not allow us to make a choice that will be optimal for us. We fall in love, create a relationship, but we cannot be happy in this relationship. We raise children, but this is a burden to us.
Kids who evolve into creative adults tend to have a strong moral compass
We are able to reduce the influence of children’s attitudes on our lives. We just need to discover in ourselves the attitudes that have arisen due to the lack of attention of parents, and not allow them to further interfere with our development.
My family is the most important thing to me
What beliefs are holding us back?
1. It’s bad to be too cheerful or too sad.
As children, we experienced strong feelings, like all children. And at that time we needed a person who would teach us to understand emotions and manage them. But instead, we were simply given to understand that we need to be more restrained. And we have learned to contain our emotions.
Family is everything
2. Demonstrating feelings means showing weakness
In childhood, the experiences were sincere. We got angry if we were offended. And loving parents had to comfort us so that over time we could learn to cope with our experiences on our own. But we were taught that feeling is weakness. And we have learned to judge ourselves for showing feelings.
Happiness is family
3. My needs and desires do not matter
As a child, we had needs like all children. We knew what was important, what was good, what was bad. We just needed someone to ask about our desires and needs. But no one paid any attention to them, and we decided that it didn’t matter.
Family is forever
4. Talking about problems is just stressing people in vain
As we grew up, we had difficulty communicating at school, at home with brothers and sisters, and with friends. And it was important for us to know what we can tell our parents about the problems. But they had no time for our problems, since then we have kept them to ourselves.
I love my family